Handsfield question. this post has gotten so complicated my head is spinning! If your only concern about contracting an STD was because you were in a bathtub together, that is a no risk situation. First, the large majority of female sex workers in the US don't have HIV. Second, your exposure was no risk. I had protected sex with an escort both orally and vaginal. D. Condoms work. Also, I had a woman put her fingers in my mouth--no fluid on them. I’m a young guy who about 6 weeks ago received unprotected oral for approximately 5 minutes and then protected sex for about the same maybe a bit longer, with an escort that wasn’t exactly expensive (150 for 30min) after the incident I haven’t had any symptoms whatsoever. 5 weeks ago. Hello I hope you can help with my question. Protected Oral Sex from Pornstar escort mark126. I've had protected oral and vaginal sex in October 2016, it was my first time having sex. 38%. D. Only 3 adult risks are the following: 1. As an adult, the only risks for HIV are: 1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or 2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users. I was my first time. After that I noticed there was a cut (resulted from shaving my genital area couple hrs before) at the base of the penis which there was some bleeding. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so nothing you can add will make it a risk. They were both over a year ago. Worriedguy2406. This forum is limited to prevention of HIV and to safe sex in general. Situation - protected sexual intercourse and protected oral receiving with a female sex worker from a legal brothel in Australia. Most commercial sex workers do not have HIV and even with infected partners, even most un-protected exposures do not lead to infection (about 1 infection per 1000 exposures to an HIV infected partner for unprotected vaginal sex and virtually no risk for oral sex). Kisisng on lips (closed) just a second probably. lavin. Should I go get prep because I. Communities > HIV Prevention > Was my encounter high risk? : (. Plus, even if she had HIV, which she almost certainly didn't, your chances of getting it from 1 minute of unprotected vaginal sex are very, very low. Besides I have read a lot from this forum and I want to thank all of you for the help you give us. I am a male who had condom protected intercourse 2 or 3 times with an ex girlfriend while we dated over a 7 month span. Hunter Handsfield, M. Protected sex with csw - anxiety hell. Oral and Vaginal, used Condom for both. with herpes they may be red sores (bumps) but with herpes it's a condition that's always in the body and the person can have regular or irregular outbreaks of herpes, but the person who has/may have herpes, they can spread it anytime but like the person above said, most unlikely to be herpes, signs of herpes: red sores down below, ill, tenderness (the part of the leg that joins with the groin. I did however have his penis in my mouth for a couple of seconds before he told me this. 1) On 10. I received unprotected oral sex and gave protected oral sex. Protected vaginal sex but afraid of sore throat Aaron0009. There is NO WAY you could have penetrated her anally and NOT KNOW. do not change this. The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. c. Hi Guys, I am from australia and i have risks that i am worried about. - I masturbated vigorously the afternon before (I didn't plan to have sex that. After 2 years. Regardless of how easy it is to catch an STI, the risk of transmission will be significantly lower if you follow safer sex guidelines. I am not too concerned about the brief protected intercourse we had but I am partial to performing oral sex on the ladies. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis. Around 8 months ago, I had protected inter course with an escort three times - each time a new Durex condom was used for the act. I have had 8 escort encounters before Jan. This forum is for questions and support regarding HIV Prevention. I had protected vaginal intercourse with her. I checked the condoms after, with water & squeeze & they were all intact. One week ago I had protected vaginal intercourse with an escort in Dublin. Comment. The condom went down the base of my penis and did not slip and was watched very carefully by both me and the escort. Hi, I got diagnosed with HSV2 on March 18th (no outbreaks), HIV negative. Then did vaginal 1-3 min or so tops and I didn't keep it in the hole time because she was a. We had intercourse with a condom which stayed on the entire time. I recently had sex with an escort. In general, it is believed that escorts (expensive sex workers by appointment) have relatively low rates of STDs, especially if they routinely have their clients wear condoms, as your escort partner apparently does. We then went into the shower together, when under the water she gave me unprotected oral sex for quite a while. This was the only exposure I had during 2019. If I am asymptomatic after a week and never develop symptoms over a couple of months, should I still be tested?If the condoms didnt broke ther is not test needed, just fallows worried advice, you have to confront your fears, if the hiv fear is too much for you to handle then just stop having sex with sex workers, becouse I wouldnt even want to think how worried would you be if you have a broken condom expirience. Here's why: 1. We had protected anal sex both ways, but we both performed oral on each other unprotected. With that said, the risk is not zero. There was some light kissing and protected vaginal sex. Really worried now and anxiety is hitting me hard. When you put these facts together, your chances of being. Afterwards she took of the condom with a baby whipe and i think cleaned off the base of penis with it then i washed my hands. I have had 6-7, latex condom protected sexual encounters, oral & vaginal since October last year, involving escorts & random women. i have been working real hard since july & have been losing weight, the max was in august even before i have ever had sex. Helpful - 0. But my cause of worry is that, I have minor cuts on my lower lip because of the cold weather and I also learnt that she was about to get her periods that day. Yesterday I made an utterly stupid mistake, I live in the UK and hired an escort (£150 per hour in case its relevant to the risk). This was stupid, and in addition, there are 2 aggravating issues: 1) I have a cold sore that is partially scared. I had protected sex with sex worker, I used condom. Upon arrival, she immediately pulled out her phone and showed me tests. I sucked her breasts. The fact you thought escorts got tested a lot so it would make her HIV free shows you have no medical training - there is a 1 month window from exposure to time for a test so even a negative test wouldn't guarantee she would be free of HIV if she had unprotected sex with someone else in the 27 days before. don't take the risk, it's not worth it. Stupidmistakejohn. She gave me oral and vaginal sex with condom. Communities > STDs / STIs > Unprotected Oral sex with a Escort. I don’t. says condoms are highly ineffective in the presence of oil, vaseline. It is not intended to be and should not be interpreted as medical advice or a diagnosis of any health or fitness problem, condition or disease; or a recommendation for a specific test, doctor, care provider, procedure,. sharing needles that you inject with. Hole in Condom - Escort. Dear Doc, I had vaginal intercourse with female escort using condom & am confused & frightened on the risk of HIV, may be coz it just happened & I was not prepared for it & now very guilty too, as per some other sites on HIV, condom is safe but not 100% which has made me bit anxious, so could you please guide if I need to do HIV test at all as I bit. Hello lovely community members. Your paranoia about HIV is the only issue here. The other exposure that frightned me, was when one of the escorts was rubbing her vagina, and I accidentally let her rub my penis. (Unprotected vaginal sex with an infected woman give. Im just worried about if ive caught any STD's , Im feeling fine but the girl had one or two supposedly hickies on her neck, otherwise she seemed clean. DR HOOK "HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex. When condoms break it is very obvious- you would definitely know if the condom broke. First, most commercial sex workers do not have HIV or, for that matter, other STDs. I had sex with a guy of unknown status Is there any risk : 1. STDs risk? Idiot83 Good evening. The chances of getting an STD from a. All questions will be answered by H. We were having protected sex and my penis slipped out. Again, the risks are quite low. Today I had protected sex with this woman, which was a sex worker. Of course I cannot predict the likelihood for any particular sex worker in Thailand or anywhere else. Withdrawal of the penis, while the condom remains in the vagina, is still protected sex. Chances are your partner did not have HIV. The condom did not tear nor break. It is not intended to be and should not be interpreted as medical advice or a diagnosis of any health or fitness problem, condition or disease; or a recommendation for a specific test, doctor, care provider, procedure,. 2. The woman placed a condom on my penis with her mouth, and used her teeth while performing oral sex. A. Well as ashamed and embarressed as I am I need to share in search of help or advice. Had Closed lip gentle kiss. So exactly 10 days ago I had intercourse with an escort. I, for the first time, decided to see an escort last night, and not a high-end one because I couldn't afford it. DR. We had sex for about 10 minutes and she stated she was clean but I have some worries. Please note that you may still be at risk for other STDs and herpes, but not HIV. You actually had a very low risk encounter, not a high risk one. Oral sex and rubbing outside a vagina to a penis are not risks. Getting a blow job is also not a risk for HIV. MedHelp is not a medical or healthcare provider and your use of this Site does not create a doctor / patient relationship. . Hi, I had sex with a escort last night and we used three condoms throughout 1 hour of anal sex vaginal sex and oral and she pulled the condom off and was licking my testicles and giving me a hand job before I came after that she left and I had a shower and washed myself them went straight to sleep and the next day when I went to go to the toilet I noticed. I live in Munchen, Germany. Hi guys im just wondering is there any need to get tested after a one off condom protected sex with an escort or is it safe to just move on, it was the only sexual encounter since my last negative tests. . . 04% per act. That leaves the encounter in which the condom broke. By this time, my penis is partially inside the. She seemed clean and even proposed her own condoms. The condom did not break or slip off. 4. A. Even in my inebriated state, I do recall that she first tried to arouse me with her hand by rubbing her hands over my penis, then she put on a condom and gave me oral, followed by vaginal intercourse with the condom. I am, however, deeply worried about contracting something. In your case, the encounters were condom protected and therefore safe. The first time, I had sex with an escort, she gave me oral with a condom. Hi. I had visited her earlier however got oral blow job and hand job. This was the only act that took place. Hi, i am 32 Male had sex with Escort one week back. But I very scared about HIV, to release anxiety and stree, I have made ELISA 21 days,. Long story short, I had protected oral and protected vaginal sex. Oral sex includes fellatio (oral sex on a penis), cunnilingus (oral sex on a vulva), and rimming (oral sex on an anus). Protected vaginal sex- only problem was massaged our bodies with oil before and no doubt the condom came into contact with some oil. lowtraction I'm a male. . At first we had protected sex and it ended the session with. I did not perform oral sex on him or participate in any other sexual acts. This was the first time I used an escort and felt sick to my stomach afterwards and have since been riddled with severe guilt (prior to the IUI we were both tested for STD's and came up negative). I was the inserting partner, which I guess is an important factor. Good day, I would like to thank you for the helpful service that you provide. During sex she didn't allow to kiss, there was condom throughout the intercourse and after ejaculation I took out and saw condom was not broken. 2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users. BillyBobtheidiot96. Then she removed the condom safely by napkin saying its my job. Multiple encounters need clarity on testing. Condom protected sex is safe sex as long as the condom is worn throughout sex and did not break (and you would know if it did since condoms break wide open when they fail). During 2019, I visited an escort on October 5. No worries there. I'm just concerned as I performed oral sex on her for 2/3 minutes (unprotected). Chris4323. It is not intended to be and should not be interpreted as medical advice or a diagnosis of any health or fitness problem, condition or disease; or a recommendation for a specific test, doctor, care provider,. It is not intended to be and should not be interpreted as medical advice or a diagnosis of any health or fitness problem, condition or disease; or a recommendation for a specific test, doctor, care provider, procedure,. You can rest easy as you did not have a risk of HIV as long as you had protected vaginal intercourse. Was my encounter high risk? : (. Answer Question. I slept with an escort from Backpage. but in most of the world--especiall US or Western Europe--the odds your escort had HIV were very low; and you had protected sex, so your odds of getting HIV were close to zero even if she had it. I am a 30 year old male. I noticed a bluish black raised spot or bump about a centimetre in length and roughly 15 centimetre to the left of her vagina, it could have just been a mole. Within that drunken/stupid state, the stripper 1) kissed me for a couple of seconds (tongue), 2) performed oral on me with a condom on, 3) intercourse with a condom on (although honestly it never even felt like I was inside of her), 4) gave a hand job without a. You are more likely to be struck by lightening than to have gotten HIV from this exposure. If all of your encounters were protected, you have no risk for HIV. 10 weeks ago I had sex with a professional. Kissing, mutual masturbation, and frottage or dry humping are considered safer sex activities, with little to no risk of STI transmission. Got drunk had protected sex with escort also fingered her. Protected vaginal sex with the sex worker Receptive Oral given from the sex worker Sex worker spits in the mouth of the receiver What would the likelihood of HIV transmission be, and would you recommend testing in this scenario?I've had 7 protected vaginal and oral experiences in the last 6 years with escorts. Josh56. I used the same condom for Oral,followed by vaginal sex. guy who regularly engages in protected sex with a pos. I masturbated her but I never touch my eyes, mouth or genitals. At Internet, she says that she is not offering anal, not sex without condom and not CIM (Cum in mouth). (closed,don't froget the lesion) 3. Every other encounter consisted of just kissing their bodies.